Ásíyih Khánum
Ásíyih Khánum — known by the title Navváb ("the Most Exalted Leaf") and also as the Most Holy Mother (Umm-i-Aṭhar); the wife of Bahá'u'lláh and the mother of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, Bahíyyih Khánum (the Greatest Holy Leaf), and Mírzá Mihdí (the Purest Branch); woman of Persian noble background who accompanied Bahá'u'lláh across the successive Ottoman exiles; died at 'Akká in 1886 after decades of sustained service to the Bahá'í household.
Origins
Ásíyih Khánum was born in 1820 in the Mázindarán region of northern Persia, into a Persian noble family of commercial and political standing. Her father — Mírzá Ismá'íl-i-Yalrúdí, a Persian official of Mázindarání origin — was associated with the Núrí family circles from which Bahá'u'lláh's father Mírzá Buzurg also came. The two families were well known to each other.
She received the education appropriate to a young woman of her Persian noble background — Persian and Arabic literature, classical Persian poetry, calligraphy, the domestic arts, cultural training in the Persian noble manner of the period. She was, by all accounts of those who knew her in her early adulthood, particularly beautiful and spiritually inclined.
The marriage to Bahá'u'lláh
In 1835 — when Ásíyih was approximately fifteen and Bahá'u'lláh approximately seventeen — the two were married. The marriage had been arranged through the established Persian noble family connections. Ásíyih moved into the Bahá'u'lláh household at Tehran (where the Núrí family maintained the principal residence appropriate to Mírzá Buzurg's Qajar court position).
The marriage proved across the subsequent fifty-one years — until Ásíyih's 1886 death in 'Akká. The marriage produced children — of whom three principal survived to adulthood: 'Abbás Effendi (the future 'Abdu'l-Bahá, born 1844), Bahíyyih Khánum (the future Greatest Holy Leaf, born 1846), and Mírzá Mihdí (the future Purest Branch, born 1848). One earlier son had died in infancy. other children were subsequently born to Bahá'u'lláh by subsequent wives in the polygamous Persian noble pattern of the period.
The Tehran years (1835–1853)
Across the first eighteen years of her marriage Ásíyih Khánum managed the Bahá'u'lláh household at Tehran. The household was prosperous (Mírzá Buzurg, until his 1839 death, maintained the Qajar court vizier position; Bahá'u'lláh, after the 1839 inheritance, managed the Núrí estates that the Buzurg position had accumulated). Ásíyih supervised the domestic arrangements, managed the large household staff, cared for the growing children, hosted the Persian noble guests who passed through the Bahá'u'lláh household.
The Babí movement reached the Bahá'u'lláh household in 1844. Bahá'u'lláh recognised the Báb (through the Tablet that Mullá Ḥusayn delivered to Him in 1844). Ásíyih likewise recognised — through the direct influence of her husband's recognition. From 1844 onward she was a Bábí and supported the Bahá'u'lláh early Bábí activities.
The 1852 catastrophe
In August 1852 — following the unauthorised Bábí faction's attempt on the life of Náṣir al-Dín Sháh — Bahá'u'lláh was arrested and imprisoned in the Síyáh-Chál of Tehran for four months. The Núrí family was deprived of its property and subjected to widespread harassment. Ásíyih, then thirty-two, was left in conditions of considerable difficulty — caring for the young 'Abbás (eight), Bahíyyih (six), and Mírzá Mihdí (four) during the uncertain period when her husband was in the Síyáh-Chál.
The Bahá'u'lláh family properties were confiscated across the subsequent months. Ásíyih and the children were left in conditions of considerable poverty — dependent on the assistance of relatives and sympathetic contacts.
The Baghdád exile (1853)
In January 1853 — after the four-month Síyáh-Chál imprisonment — Bahá'u'lláh was released and immediately exiled by the Persian government to Baghdád. Ásíyih accompanied Him — with the three surviving children. The overland journey from Tehran to Baghdád occupied approximately three months across the bitter Persian winter. The conditions were extreme — deep snow across the Zagros mountain passes, inadequate clothing, inadequate accommodations along the route, constant anxiety about the threat to the Bahá'u'lláh family from the Persian authorities and Bábí persecutors.
The family arrived in Baghdád in April 1853. Mírzá Yaḥyá (Bahá'u'lláh's younger half-brother) joined the Baghdád household. Ásíyih managed the Baghdád household across the subsequent ten years (1853–1863) — during Bahá'u'lláh's 1854–1856 Sulaymáníyyih withdrawal (when she was left to manage the Baghdád household alone), across the subsequent return and the Garden of Riḍván declaration of 1863, and across the subsequent Constantinople and Adrianople exiles (1863–1868).
The 'Akká years (1868–1886)
From 1868 onward Ásíyih lived in 'Akká with the broader Bahá'u'lláh household. The 'Akká years were particularly difficult — the early barracks confinement (1868– 1870), the death of her son Mírzá Mihdí in June 1870 from injuries sustained in the fall through the barracks skylight, the subsequent conditions of confinement across the subsequent decade.
Across the 'Akká decades Ásíyih supported Bahá'u'lláh's sustained revelatory activity, supported her son 'Abbás Effendi in the growing responsibility he was undertaking, supported her daughter Bahíyyih Khánum in the sustained domestic responsibilities, mourned her son Mírzá Mihdí across the subsequent decades.
Death
Ásíyih Khánum died in 'Akká in 1886 at the age of approximately sixty-six. She had been Bahá'u'lláh's wife for fifty-one years. She had borne and raised the principal children of His household. She had accompanied Him across the successive Ottoman exiles. She had endured considerable difficulty across the decades — poverty, political persecution, bereavement, sustained physical confinement.
She was buried initially in the Bahá'í cemetery of 'Akká alongside her son Mírzá Mihdí. In December 1939 Shoghi Effendi undertook the transfer of both Ásíyih's and Mírzá Mihdí's remains to the Monument Gardens on Mount Carmel near the Shrine of the Báb. The Monument Gardens — which also include the graves of the Greatest Holy Leaf (Bahíyyih Khánum, died 1932) and Munírih Khánum (the wife of 'Abdu'l-Bahá, died 1938) — constitute the principal Bahá'í holy site for the Bahá'u'lláh family graves.
The titles
Ásíyih Khánum has been known in the Bahá'í tradition by several titles. The principal title was Navváb — a Persian-Arabic honorific denoting high standing — that Bahá'u'lláh conferred. She was also known as the Most Exalted Leaf and as the Most Holy Mother (Umm-i- Aṭhar — the mother of the Purest Branch and the Greatest Holy Leaf). The subsequent Bahá'í tradition has used these honorifics in sustained recognition.
The witness
Ásíyih Khánum has been remembered in the Bahá'í tradition as the principal wife of the Manifestation — the Persian noble woman of spiritual quality whose fifty-one-year marriage to Bahá'u'lláh supported the Manifestation across the entire course of His principal ministry, whose children became the principal members of the Bahá'í institutional family, whose sustained endurance across the successive Ottoman exiles embodied the pattern of Bahá'í wifely witness that subsequent generations of Bahá'í women have taken as principal example.
See also: Bahá'u'lláh · 'Abdu'l-Bahá · the Greatest Holy Leaf · Mírzá Mihdí (the Purest Branch) · Munírih Khánum